Monday, April 20, 2009

CHAPTER SEVEN, HOW TO BE HAPPY

CHAPTER SEVEN. HOW TO BE HAPPY

Master White Eagle has incarnated many times to the American continents as Quetzacoatl and other honoured chiefs and medicine men. He brings divine information and healing skills.

Q1. HOW DOES SPIRIT VIEW HAPPINESS?

A . Happiness is a human concept. We would rather, that you be contented and fulfilled. Happiness and sadness are two sides of the same coin. You flip the coin and one day you are happy, the next day you are sad. Strive instead, to find inner contentment and purpose. This is much more satisfying and fulfilling. This is balance. Once you have found balance and detachment, you will also find inner joy! This is not happiness - ephemeral and fleeting, but lasting and sustainable. Happiness makes you delirious and you can’t think straight. Sadness has the same effect. But, contentment and inner joy allow you to work, play and love in a rational, yet motivated way!

Q2. HOW CAN I BE HAPPY IN MY WORK?

A. Find work that you love to do. When you find work that you love, it is no longer a chore, but a privilege to do. You spring out of bed each day, instead of being reluctantly dragged from your bed. See adventure in your work. See it as an opportunity for growth. Don’t stay employed in a soulless, grey vocation. Discover what you love to do and do it! And if it helps others, what a bonus that will be!

Q3. HOW CAN I FIND CONTENTMENT IN MY LOVE LIFE?

A . Most relationships are karmic. You owe them something or need to repay something, with your partner. They may owe you karma, as well or need to break a certain pattern, that you both have developed over many lifetimes. Perhaps, you betrayed them last lifetime and this lifetime they will have the chance to betray you, in order to even things up! There are endless patterns of hate, malice, spite, betrayal, guilt, jealousy etc. Of course, they may also repay the good karma you have developed with them, over many lifetimes as helpfulness, encouragement, love, affection, self sacrifice etc. However, when the karma, good or bad, is repaid it is often time for them to move out of your life. This is when the relationship ends.You may have also set up similar lessons with other partners, in order to reinforce the learning. For example, you may have three lovers, who are all very jealous. This jealously usually helps to end the relationship, fairly fast. You may need to look at why your partners, are always jealous? Is it something you do? Is it the type of partner you are drawn to and why? Your tactics at dealing with their jealousy have not worked successfully in the past. How then, can you change your actions, to promote a better relationship? Do you see the lessons you can learn by objectively looking at your relationships! Hopefully you will overcome the pattern and developing better patterns for the future?

As you begin to perfect yourself spiritually, you will then have the opportunity to draw into your life, your Twin Flame or soul mate. This is a very special person, meant to not only love you, but to also encourage you to explore your spiritual nature. Together, you can do great spiritual deeds and obtain great spiritual growth. But, first of all, you need to learn through your karmic relationships, end useless patterns and develop yourself to be similar to the partner you would like to draw into you. If you want a loving, caring, open minded, spiritual person - you need to be one also. Like attracts like!

Q4. I HAVE SO MANY PROBLEMS, HOW DO I OVERCOME THEM TO FIND CONTENTMENT?

A . First of all, write down a long list of your problems. Be truthful. Put the most important ones at the top and smallest at the bottom. Now begin to work on changing the smallest ones first. Here is an example of how it could be done – Someone’s list
1. No purpose in life.
2. No partner in life.
3. Hate my job.
4. Hate where I live.
5. Feel stressed and can’t relax.

Start with no.5. Do - Join a meditation circle. Go for long walks in the country or seaside. Gentle exercise, such as yoga or tai chi. Join a hobby group. Do what you love to do. Pamper yourself. Be creative. Don’t Just try to relax at home. Follow your same routine. Watch television. Realize that you have spent years, creating this stress. It may take some time to relieve it, but, it will go in time. Be as inventive about relieving the stress, just as you would about a new account or project. See your relaxation time as valuable!

Next no.4. Move! Find somewhere you really love, which makes you feel good and move there. You may not have the same type or class of accommodation, but, wouldn’t you rather wake up to the sound of the ocean, in a small, one bedroom apartment, than live in a large house in the centre of a busy city? Share accommodation, house sit, live in a boarding house, live in a caravan. Try something different. If you don’t like it, you can always leave, but, at least you have successfully changed your mundane environment!

Now no.3. Decide what you really want to work at in life and begin working towards this. Go back to college part time or learn a new skill from an experienced craftsman. Save your money towards being independent for six months, doing what you would love to do. You can spend forty years complaining about a dead end job or put a few years or months into developing the vocation that you really want. But begin now!

No.2. If you have done all the preceding steps, you are becoming used to change. Your becoming courageous. You’ve changed your home and job and learned to relax. Life is certainly a thousand percent better than it was. Right? Now you need to begin to look for your true loving companion. But, not in the old way! No bars, raves, dances, etc. Go to exactly the opposite places, that you usually go, to meet partners. (Remember you are trying to break patterns!

Try hobby groups, sports clubs, philosophical societies, meditation groups, seminars, art galleries, etc. it is important, that you go to where you feel comfortable n find interesting, if you truly want to meet a similar type person. Ask the Universe or Great Spirit, to send you the, ‘Right partner for your highest good’. Be aware! Many people meet wonderfully, compatible people, but, dismiss them for minor reasons - too thin, too fat, too old, too young, too plain, wrong race or religion, too brainy, etc. Get to know each person thoroughly. Look at their actions, as well as what they say. Look for the diamond within, not just the sparkle outside. Have faith and be patient. Better to find the right person after a long wait, then many wrong people in a short time!
No1. Now we will tackle this important issue. It is hoped by now that all the other problems are being solved. You are feeling confident and contented, now that you are relaxed, in the right vocation, living in a uplifting home with your Twin flame, it is time to tackle your Life Purpose. What do you and your partner, want to do with the rest of your lives?

What can you offer society, to better it and make yourself feel valued? Can your vocation be extended to help society improve or a hobby similarly developed? How can you work in tandem with your partner (or alone if necessary), to make a spiritual difference here on Earth? Sit down and list your skills. What can you develop? Now using the skills, that you developed to solve the other four problems, solve this problem! Create a life of purpose and unconditional love. You can do it!

Q5. ISN’T IT OKAY TO FEEL SAD, SOMETIMES?

A . You can choose to feel anything you like. But, if you want true control over your emotions, you need to practise developing this, for sometimes it is inappropriate to feel sad or low. If you are going for a job interview and really want to get the job, being sad, depressed or dispirited, will convey to the employer that you are not a desirable employee and it is unlikely that you will get the job! It is hard to make friends, when you are feeling depressed. Everything feels like an effort. But of course, the choice is yours!

Q6. HOW CAN I STOP FEELING SAD ALL THE TIME?
A. Develop strategies for dealing with depression. Here are some –

1. Place a picture of something beautiful and uplifting on your bedside table or wall, so that when you wake up in the morning it is the first thing you see.
2. Lying in bed, visualise everything that you need to do in your coming day and see yourself doing them super successfully. Never dwell on negative thoughts!
3. If its sunny outside, go outside and lift your face to the sun. This is what we Native Americans would do daily to set us up for the day.
4. Have a breakfast you really enjoy.
5. Dress in bright attractive clothing. No grey or blacks! Stand tall.
6. Allow yourself time to do your chores or get to work early, without rushing!
7. See everything that happens to you, in your day, as neither good nor bad, but just interesting! You are learning something new every moment. Be adventurous!
8. Increase your spiritual connection. You have many friends and powers in the unseen world!9. Believe it is a benevolent Universe.

Do you see, Brothers and Sisters, how easy it can be to create positivity within you, rather than pessimism? Learn these techniques and as you radiate positivity, you will draw corresponding positive situations to you, to reinforce your good mood.
Q7. DO MASTERS EVER FEEL SAD?

A. We feel sad when we are not able to help you on the lower dimensional level, when you are not even aware of our assistance. When you do not strive to make your lives more beautiful, through higher states of loving, creativity and brotherhood. When you scorn the knowledge of many millenniums and repeat the same futile mistakes. Yes, then we are sad. But, we know that every so often, a generation awakens, to who they can truly become, contact us and raise their civilization’s light, to a higher dimensional vibration of great love and fulfillment. We hope that this is a similar generation!

Q8. SOMETIMES FOR NO REASON I FEEL SAD, WHY?

A. Surprisingly, sadness can be contagious! Standing in the auric field of someone who is feeling sad, can mean that you accidentally pickup their depression. When you feel sad for no apparent reason, learn to cleanse your aura. Imagine a powerful, golden light flooding into your aura, sending any grey negativity out, to the sun, to be destroyed. Put a protective barrier of golden- white light, around your aura, whenever you are in a crowd!

Q9. WHAT DO I DO IF I FEEL I’M UNDER PSYCHIC ATTACK?

A. Do as above, cleanse your aura. Put a protective barrier around yourself. Then imagine that your auric bubble is mirror reflective. What is sent to you, is reflected back. So that if someone sends you evil, they will receive evil. If they send you love, they will receive love. Do not add to the negativity. Be detached. Ask your Guides and Arch Angel Michael to protect you.

Q10. MY BOYFRIEND MADE ME FEEL SAD, ISN’T IT HIS FAULT?

A. Only you are responsible for your own happiness, no one else is! This is called self responsibility. It is a sign of maturity of spirit. Other people’s actions may initially affect you, but as you attain detachment and control of your emotions, you learn to not react to their manipulations. You see their negative actions as childlike and non spiritual. You learn to create inner joy, within yourself, confidence and unconditional love. They then, cannot harm or hurt you. You then choose to feel happy or sad, glad or unhappy, joyous or depressed. You are in control. Do not blame others. Free yourself, by choosing to feel however you like! Ho!
White Eagle.

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