Why people break promise ?

Daily God:
A reader asks:

Why do people make promises, make you count on them, trust them and then they break their promises? Or people who tell you all the wonderful things you want to hear and then you discover they say the same things to someone else (like in the relationship I ended recently). How can I continue to have trust in the new people I meet since I was very hurt by such a person recently? Why do they have to lie and not say openly "Look, I think we are very different and I'm looking for something (someone) else"?

God, do you have an answer to this question?
Ah, yes, of course.

First, allow yourself to forgive. Forgiveness is just a gentle letting go, a release of the past, a promise to yourself not to spend your mental time and your emotional energy thinking about this any more. Each time it comes into your mind, just gently set it aside. Not now, not now. Just let it float in and out of your mind and do not allow yourself to focus on it.

And then, cleanse yourself, cleanse your heart of the anguish and the pain. Spend some time alone each morning and let the wonderful healing angels who are your friends gather above you and pour the sweet waters of love over you, flowing down, over you and into you, washing away the hurt and the pain, filling your heart with forgiveness, which is really just a readiness to live again.

Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It does not matter that you think that this other person should change, that you think he had no right to be the way he was. Let all that go. Let it go, cleanse yourself with love, and release the bad feelings you have, let them wash away in the flow of love and open you again to the great life which is around you and in you.

And now, as you go forward in life, do it a bit differently. Now, center yourself within yourself. Be true to yourself. Learn to love yourself so deeply that the love of other people is just a nice addition. Learn to love yourself exactly as you are.

After the angels wash away your bad feelings about others, let them also wash away your bad feelings about yourself. Let them wash away the blame you attach to yourself about the things which have happened, that nagging voice that asks if perhaps these things happen to you because you are somehow not quite good enough. Wash all this away as well. Love yourself exactly as you are. Love and accept yourself, approve of yourself, exactly as you are. Love yourself as you are in this moment, the way you look now, the way you act, the way you feel. All of this is good and all of this is exactly as it should be for you to take the next step in your journey.

Accept deeply how you are. Love and accept yourself just as you are. And now, accept life as it is. Accept everything that it has brought to you in the past and everything as it is right now. And from this deep well of acceptance, forgiveness and understanding, accept others, just as they are.

Yes, they seem to have many failings. Yes, they seem to do things which are difficult to understand. But that is because they are living in another world; they are living in a world which is made up of all the experiences they have ever had, their own deep well of hurts, of prejudices, of confusions. Each person walks in a complex world, seeing what is outside their own minds as through a wavy and distorted glass, like looking out at life through the end of a long, thick bottle.

And in their world, who knows what may make them do what they do, given how they see and what they see. Your goal here is not to place judgment and criticism upon others or yourself. Your goal is twofold. First, to clear your own vision by seeing things as they are, not as you wish them to be. Just as they are. Seeing this and accepting this.

And secondly, by accepting others as they are, without taking it personally if their view is different from yours. Demand the respect you are due, but beyond this, allow others to be as they are. And if the way they are is not something which you can accept, then move on. Just gently release them from your life.

But do not expect someone else to fulfill your fantasies. Do not expect someone else to give you something you are missing deep inside. This is your job and your responsibility, to fill yourself up with what you need, to clear your own vision and see the world sparkling and clear, full of opportunities and wonders.

Release the anger. Release the hurt and the pain. Clear your eyes and come into this moment, this moment right now, right here. You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control how you respond to it. Fill your heart with love. Fill your heart with forgiveness. Love yourself and move on.

To Forgive is Divine ......

Read and Practise..,

Winson.... Forge a relation with your brother and sister ...... Feel the love in all of us...

Love is God ...........
The essence of life ..........
The oness ......
The whole